Brit Gal Sarah sent me five interview questions last week, which I have been mulling over. Here are the answers.
1.How did you meet the ball and chain and did you ever consider him moving to the UK, was it a hard decision to emigrate for you?
I “met” the B&C before he even appeared in the UK. I was working in HR for a huge (now dead) firm of accountants, and had him scheduled as an incoming American. Trouble was, the “incoming” bit kept getting delayed, and so by the time he finally materialized, I was well and truly pissed off with him in a professional capacity.
The next time I “met” him, I was seated next to him at a company dinner at the Savoy. We were getting on “famously” when he suddenly asked me to take care of his wallet, and disappeared. Next thing I know, he was stripping down to basketball gear on stage to do a rap about American expats in London. (Sadly no video).
Fast forward a year and a half, and because we wouldn’t normally have been getting engaged, we split up and he went back to the US. He kept coming back to England every 3 weeks because of client commitments, so we met for drinks “as friends”. He then invited me over to Dallas in the September, and I met all his friends (nothing formal, you understand), then he came over to England in November, and proposed the night he went back. (Hence no engagement ring, but diamonds in my wedding ring, and on the soles of my shoes.)
We were secretly married in Dallas by a Justice of the Peace on Dec 31 1989 just to get the paperwork going, and then “formally” in Parsons Green, followed by a reception at the Hurlingham Club in April, 1990. I really didn’t think too much about the move as I’d always “known” I would live abroad for a while. We must have just assumed I would move here as I can't remember discussing it.
2. How long have you lived in the USA, what do you miss the most apart from people in the UK and what do like best about living here?
I’ve lived in the US since May 1990. I miss a lot of things about the UK but it changes every year, so I think the biggest thing I miss is my frame of reference. I can’t make jokes about things I grew up with, and although I’m learning every day about American things, there’s always something I don’t relate to.
I like fact that even in freezing Chicago, you are guaranteed a good summer. The weather in England, especially recently, can be diabolical. I go to England every summer, and last year it rained every day but one during my 4 week stay. Grrr.
3. Had you written anything before 'Rules Britannia', or did the idea for it, motivate you to write?
I had written a few paid articles before ‘Rules, Britannia’ came out, but I think that was on the strength of my publishing deal. I am really bad at publicizing my writing so most of what I have written has been after that. (On a side note however, not to put anyone else off, I find the work you have to put into sending a proposal to a magazine is more than the work put into the article itself. I’d much rather invest the time in a book proposal.)
I never set out to write a book in the first place (although you always have a dream.) Seriously, almost as soon as I moved to the US, people began to ask me questions about the UK on behalf of relatives and neighbors. Being the helpful (firstborn) that I am, I quickly amassed notes. Then, when a friend moved to England a few years later I really cranked out the material and handed her 40 pages. She said “Wow, this is a book”. It still took me about two more years to even consider it, and there you go.
4. What's the best thing about living in Chicago?
It’s a very vibrant city and not too big. I live near Lincoln Park, which is the parkland that goes all the way up the lake Michigan shoreline. I also live within walking distance of the kids’ school, a free zoo, Michigan Avenue shops and the beach. The people are very grounded and friendly. (Oops, that’s more than one thing.)
5. Apart from people or pets, what is your most prized possession and why?
I've had too much happen in my life to be into 'possessions', but if I had to name something it would probably be the ring my dad made me when I was little. It's a sixpence, which he soldered onto a silver band. It just about fits my little finger now, but he died when I was twenty so I would be devasted if I lost it.
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2. I will respond by emailing you five questions. (I get to pick the
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5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask
them five questions.